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No question... We all know it's a "sickness"... It's just how bad do you got it...
This hobby (preoccupation) at times kind of reminds me of a few friends of mine and the circumstances they had. Their "better halves" might as well had been invisible from where I was sitting and observing. There comes a time when just being there isn't enough. Clueless to the signs, hints and advice anyone may try to give. Saying things like "you are crazy man, no way! .
They say you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. Suddenly, like a ton of bricks they wake up when it's too late. Something taken for granted you thought would always be there is gone. A new interest has kindled a spark long dead from years of neglect and being taken for granted. Now suddenly, your attention is 110%, but it's too late because the feelings are no longer mutual. They no longer need you .. that kind of love once shared is dead now.